Giving her a squirting orgasm (also known as a female ejaculation orgasm) is one of the things that most guys dream about doing, for the simple reason that most guys can`t give her one of these orgasms. It is always nice to know that you are one of the best lovers she has ever had! The only difficulty is that these orgasms can be tricky to give successfully. Most women have a lot of tension and even mental blocks that can prevent them from ejaculating, so if you want to make sure that you can give her a squirting orgasm correctly, you will want to use a massage first.
Squirting Orgasm Massage
One of the key things to remember is that a squirting orgasm can often feel like peeing for women. As most women have an inbuilt aversion to peeing on the bed, they will often block their own orgasm just in case they are about to urinate. Luckily the sensation of urinating and the feel of the ejaculation orgasm are slightly different. Therefore if she is relaxed and focusing on her body, she should be able to tell the difference.
Throughout the orgasm process, it is important to get her to focus on your movement and on the way her body feels. She should feel pleasure and also be aware of your touch on her. Sometimes you may even need to focus her attention by making her tell you how good something feels or when you have hit an erogenous zone.
Massaging from the Top-Down
Generally erotic massaging goes from the top to the bottom of her body, focusing on the zones that feel best for her. The best place to start is the side of her neck, an area that most women find sensitive and then slide your hands down her spine to massage her buttocks. Take your time on her spine, as it is a erogenous zone that many guys forget, then finally slide from her buttocks down to her thighs.
This should have started to get her turned-on and her body should be attuned to every motion of yours. If this hasn’t happened yet, slide your hands over her neck and spine again. When she is ready you should start on her front. At first stroke the area between her breasts, before slowly moving your hands in towards the nipples. The main point here is to turn her on and relax her, so make your movement both sensual and slow.
As you move your hands down, take some time to stroke the outside of her clitoris and labia before penetrating her, as the tease will make her body tingle and she will pay a lot more attention to what your hands are doing. Finally penetrate her with your fingers and her body will be tingling with erotic signals, just ready to have a big ejaculation orgasm.
The female Ejaculation Orgasm
Therefore the key to this orgasm is to make sure that her entire body is awaiting your every move and she is completely ‘in tune’ with your movement. Once this happens, she will be primed for orgasm and able to have a BIG orgasm far more easily. This is the point where squirting orgasms become easier for her to have and the two of you start to have great sex.